Monday, November 30, 2009

Of Friendship

So how do two strangers become friends? Is it the frequency of their interactions.. or the common links which are woven? Is it the possibity of a beautiful tomorrow.. or the content of a happy today.. whatever it is.. its more vital on how we shape it.. because a new friendship is like fresh clay ..what defines its destiny is the way we mould it today..

Like it is said.. in most of the melodramatic Hindi movies. sometimes it takes ages to get to know a person.. and sometimes. it takes a couple of converstations to make them your best friend. It is important to cherish and nurture this friendship.. so that it grows into a stronger bond.. which is linked.. without an open end..

It is not important that two people interpret a thing in the same way, or like the same cuisine.. or enjoy the same genre of music.. or watch the same movies.. whats important is that.. you cook with a lot of affection, .. dance to the most boring song together and enjoy a bucket of popcorns watchingthe lousiest of flicks.. its the way you want it to be.. thats how it will turn out..

Its not a problem if we have built castles in the air..because now its time to put a strong foundation under it.. a lot of hope, apprehension, anxiety and dreams come with every begining, but if you support this with a strong cemented ground.. the tallest of skyskapers will stand with a promise of a hundred years.

Life moves on.. you encounter a different situation every day.. but what matters and keeps you going is the hand that holds you through your journey.. the step that steps on your footprints and walks you through verdant and barren lands... someone who brings a smile to your face even when you are in the most crucial situation or who just listens to what you have to say even if it makes no sense.. maybe its about giving in unconditional love and commitment to a friendship which makes it beautiful.. because we are not perfect people.. what matters is just what it takes to make a perfect realtionship..:)

5 comments:

Vikas Bhargava said...

You are just sooo perfect for an arranged marriage ;)

Anubhav Mishra said...

i love this comment above :D

Zafar Ali said...
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anonsnowyriv said...

Its all very beautiful till one realises how sometimes, life can show you the TRUTHS which cause their fair share of agony....till you realise that amid chaos, chaos sometimes reigns supreme, till you realise how this fresh TRUTH about somethings and someone causes a stigma so indelible that one wakes up finally......and that could swing either way.

An earnest word of advice before you cement anything, check the quality of the CEMENT!!!! Cause there are plenty of earthquakes to shake those Castles you are building.....

Consider this as ...A help from the yonder which will make you ponder again in the yonder.......

Seek and thee shall find.......

Earnest said...
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