Wednesday, March 10, 2010

There is Something New!

Its not too often that I am in a mood like this.. a bit contemplative and somewhat reactive.. very calm, yet terpid with the introspection within.. Its like one of those expensive cocktails on the menu that sounds like a fancy concoction of various spirits and flavours.. but is just a plan mix of some aspirations, happiness, deception and loads of hope for sure.. to have a better 'next moment' thats because we think short time a lot of times!

Well, why I am here is a diffrent reason though.. i SUDDENLY remembered my long lost blog.. who used to be my friend at times.. with whom i used to talk with and spill out secrets to my hearts content! but just like any other selfish individual I forgot about it as my life picked up pace and started to tread a new path! But here I am.. resting for a while.. as I have been walking too fast for the past few months! Stopped to think, to absorb ..to smile... and then maybe take the next step.. :)

So.. well, Iv noticed that iv started using this word too much (so).. thanks to a person who has taught me a lot . its funny how you learn so much from everyone around you without even realising the worth of the lesson! Sometimes you are grateful for it when you get rewarded for the consequence of the implementation , yet sometimes you are disgusted by the unwanted learning! for me it has been positive so far.. and I am HAPPY.. I state that in Capitals because that is the most important thing at the end of the day.. no matter how gruesome, tough, easy, bewildering or smooth your journey has been, what you remember is the feeling you had when you took the last step.. Its not the last step for me though. So ya ( look the 'so' comes again!)

I was elaborating on what I have learnt from this person. One.. you realise your true commitment, like we say.. till you push the limits you never know how far can you go.. similarly.. sometimes.. you do not realise how giving and caring.. how emotional. There is not much I can explain on this,, but then.. all I would want to say is.. have you ever closed your eyes and seen an unending ocean, with a beautiful vibgyor arising from the horizon! If not.. then you are just short of pushing the 'limit' try once again.. :)

One instant can change your life.. sometimes when you dont want to do something as badly as a kid not wanting to sit for his mathematics paper, or going to the dentist the next morning and innocently praying to God for him to fall sick .. yet its that very thing which brings sureal happiness to your life,, and you think and then think again as to how close were you to losing this smile on your face and losing this dream of the vast blue expanse! and then you sit back and smile again.. being happy on the decision you took!
Back to where I was.. What has this 'new' person taught me? besides giving me a little more motivation, some magical moments, loads of memories and a handful of tears! he has given me the ability to 'push the limit' and see myself in a different light.. a new confident and more secure person.. but then i wonder! was I that weak and that i needed sumone to come and show me who I really am! Lets not go there.. lets just settle for the simple reason that just like every diamond needs to be carefully chisled to make it a masterpiece ;P.. i needed this new 'entry' and encouragement!:D to bring out my true self!
When life changes, it wipes out your past, cleans your expectations for the future.. It just takes you, holding you strongly by the hand and helps you walk confidently along the new road he has carved out for you ... it gives you opportunites, guides you patiently and at the same time tests you religiously! so.. we just need to believe in what we have and what we want from our present and future.. We need to realise that at times, the countless names written on wet sand, and the innocent dreams drawn on the beach are not going to stay there always, there is surely a wave which will come along the way and wipe away everything .. but at the same time.. it will also sweep you off your feet and take you to the middle of the ocean.. bring you closer to the dream you saw when you closed your eyes and let you loose yourself in the beauty of the seamless water.. because.. like a strong perfect relationship.. this water.. is flexible and adapts itslef according to the container you put it in.. it makes you calm, peaceful and forever beautiful.. It makes you the person you really are:).. it makes you fall in love with yourself again. and more than anything else it makes you do what you love doing...It makes you smile :)

3 comments:

Earnest said...
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Shrinkhla said...

:) Thank you Earnest, For your Earnest Comments, I truely value them, considering you specially took out time to create this platform to communicate:) and many more im sure...:)

Well, I highly appreciate your honesty, which surely comes from experience and incidents, and i also keenly admire your flow of words, you are good at writing.. I think u should pursue it further..

Anyways.. without digressing from the point of discussion, as I was saying.. sometimes.. when things fall in place you know '[this'] is it.. its a feeling which is certainly not defined by distance,past incidents or health.. its defined by compatibility and honesty.. and yes.. Love to top it all up..

as you may have easily said " (as your path has probably been defined by exchange of rings and smiles and hugs' its surely more than that.. a decision so pure, vital and important involves many more attributes.. and Im sure you agree that exchange of rings is a commitment for life.. ofcourse if its done out of will :) and if not.. then breaking away from it it is a good decisiona and not a felony!

I appreciate that you have warned me from good will and you know a lot of things, but maybe we all do and see them the way they are.. none of us are perfect..and i guess its nice that way. but i hope ull open your palm and let go of the sand.. because it is just drying up leaving u bruised.. let it flow because a new tommorow.. bright and beautiful is waiting for you with open arms.. so lets not reiterate the past.. lets break out of it.. and make a novel tomorrow.. because only then will you be able to rise over the horizon and see that the path Im treading, which mayhave not be right for some one else is just fine for me :) lets not expect too much from life na..

Things change,times alter, so do people.. lets give them and ourselves another chance:) what say?

Earnest said...

Thanks for your appreciation....In fact ,I would like you to know that I have pursued my writing to a larger level which has recently been published, on a landscape that asks for more than casual readers' attention. a project for fund-raising for slum kids under the guidance of India's biggest revollutionaries alive. I wish you get to read it someday. I am sure that the book will find its way in your hands one day. Till then, I shall let nature take its course on that.

About your thoughts, my famous last words will be- 'All the best'. Period.